Thursday, March 27, 2008

"the adorable image of 2 lost children paddling past the Superdome".

"Gateway to Servitude".

"In Greed We Trust".

Heh.

 

Bush Commemorative Coin Set

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 Thursday, March 13, 2008

What I've been saying all along. That's why not *all* kids develop autistic-like behaviours after a vaccination, and why *some* do. I could turn blue with repeating the obvious, at least obvious to me for years now: etiologies differ, hence varying interventions' successes.

Good for this kid and her family. Someone has done something to make a difference. Although the "sealed record" will make it all the more effort to really get this particular etiology sorted out with precision, at least we have some progress.

Government Concedes Vaccine-Autism Case in Federal Court - Now What?

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 Sunday, March 02, 2008

Some chatter this morning on one of the online support groups to which I belong reminded me that I wanted to share these cool photos I took over the Christmas holiday. The first two were taken in the Minneapolis airport, and promote an informative website: curepity.org. I'm all for that cause! The one on the side of a bus was taken in Halifax, Nova Scotia, and I really loved the message. It brought tears to my eyes that any organization so enlightened could actually afford a bus ad. It says, "This kid has a special need: to become an astronaut". How profound.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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 Friday, February 29, 2008

A very cool blog post with lots of great film snippets AND cool "Take Action" links to good causes/interesting resources. An entertaining read.

Top 10 Dystopian Future Films Telling Us to Act Now!

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 Wednesday, February 20, 2008
Running the Numbers, an American Self-Portrait.
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Stunning and thought-provoking.  A friend sent this to me today, and it will only take a few minutes to check it out. I found this artist's work to be quite profound.
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 Wednesday, January 30, 2008

Nice blog post on this topic over at United Hollywood:

http://unitedhollywood.blogspot.com/2008/01/thoughts-from-screenwriter.html

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 Saturday, January 12, 2008

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20080112/ap_on_re_us/autistic_girl_killed_5

For all my readers who KNOW someone who has some closely-held notion of one's autism being "separate" from one's PERSON-NESS, I encourage you to share this sad, sad story. Please, don't skip this mom's final words in the article. Have a look at where that thinking brought her.

It's a loathesome tragedy, and I can't tell you how many women I have encountered who have this EXACT thinking. Mothers who slave to deny their child's autism, who forbid the use of the word, and pretend that being autistic is just a "terrible thing" that has happened to their child. They think that the child shouldn't understand it or have it explained in order to embrace the child and give the the child control and ownership of his/her essential being.

I am just sick and sad. I was already sick and sad about this news story in general, and it's not exactly fresh. However, reading that quote from the mother just turned my stomach anew, particularly in light of the kinds of things I've been hearing so often lately.

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 Wednesday, January 09, 2008

I am totally perseverating on the bizarre morphing, I'd say over the last year or so, of the term "autistic spectrum disorders", which has been around for YEARS, into "autism spectrum disorders", which is a grammar FIASCO. Why, oh WHY are people saying "autiSM spectrum"????

I implore ALL of you complicit in this - please stop saying that - it makes no SENSE! It's an adjective-noun combo, and the adjective "autistic" describes the noun "spectrum". "Autism" is NOT an adjective!! Therefore the phrase is NONSENSICAL!!!

Oh, and for all the terribly misguided people-first-language types, you don't make *any* sense either. An autistic person is no longer him/herself when stripped of autism, just as a woman is no longer herself if you strip her of her "female" adjective. And NO ONE'S adjective creates mutual exclusivity with any OTHER adjective that accurately defines the subject!! Quit it with the totally ignorant promotion of the idea that an adjective defines, with EXCLUSIVITY, any person. Either shut the fuck up, or modify your entire language structure to eliminate ALL adjective-noun combos. That means your kid can no longer be "smart", "clever", "cute", "African-American", "adorable", "challenging", "creative", "sensitive", "precocious", "sleepy", "hirsute", "blonde", "hungry", "artistic", "talented", or any other possible adjective that MIGHT potentially accurately describe him or her. Your child must now ALWAYS be "Timmy with blondeness", "Susan with sleepiness", "Sam with artisticness", "Julie with cleverness", "James with precociousness", "Sally with hirsutism", "Gerald with African-Americanism", "Deborah with sensitivity", etc.

 

See how stupid that is?

 

See how grammatically ridiculous that is?

 

P.S. I don't "suffer from autism" - I am autistic, and I only suffer from the ignorance of others.

 

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 Monday, December 03, 2007

Seriously. This is pathetic and Americans used to give a shit but now it seems all they do is watch reality TV and hope someone else will fix it. Or just not notice. But at some point, they will notice, and that's when it will be too late. It's really sickening.

From Media Matters:
Fox News has refused to air an ad produced by the Center for Constitutional Rights that criticizes the Bush administration for "destroying the Constitution" by the use of renditions, torture, and other tactics. The ad, "Rescue the Constitution," which is narrated by actor Danny Glover, can be viewed here and here.

Because torture is, you know, totally Constitutional.

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 Monday, November 26, 2007

...when the great mastering studios started trashing their lathes.

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Vinyl May Be Final Nail in CD's Coffin

By Eliot Van Buskirk 10.29.07 | 12:00 AM

As counterintuitive as it may seem in this age of iPods and digital downloads, vinyl -- the favorite physical format of indie music collectors and audiophiles -- is poised to re-enter the mainstream, or at least become a major tributary.

Talk to almost anyone in the music business' vital indie and DJ scenes and you'll encounter a uniformly optimistic picture of the vinyl market.

"I'm hearing from labels and distributors that vinyl is way up," said Ian Connelly, client relations manager of independent distributor alliance IODA, in an e-mail interview. "And not just the boutique, limited-edition colored vinyl that Jesu/Isis-style fans are hot for right now."

Pressing plants are ramping up production, but where is the demand coming from? Why do so many people still love vinyl, even though its bulky, analog nature is anathema to everything music is supposed to be these days? Records, the vinyl evangelists will tell you, provide more of a connection between fans and artists. And many of today's music fans buy 180-gram vinyl LPs for home listening and MP3s for their portable devices.

"For many of us, and certainly for many of our artists, the vinyl is the true version of the release," said Matador's Patrick Amory. "The size and presence of the artwork, the division into sides, the better sound quality, above all the involvement and work the listener has to put in, all make it the format of choice for people who really care about music."

Because these music fans also listen using portable players and computers, Matador and other labels include coupons in record packaging that can be used to download MP3 versions of the songs. Amory called the coupon program "hugely popular."

Portability is no longer any reason to stick with CDs, and neither is audio quality. Although vinyl purists are ripe for parody, they're right about one thing: Records can sound better than CDs.

Although CDs have a wider dynamic range, mastering houses are often encouraged to compress the audio on CDs to make it as loud as possible: It's the so-called loudness war. Since the audio on vinyl can't be compressed to such extremes, records generally offer a more nuanced sound.

Another reason for vinyl's sonic superiority is that no matter how high a sampling rate is, it can never contain all of the data present in an analog groove, Nyquist's theorem to the contrary.

"The digital world will never get there," said Chris Ashworth, owner of United Record Pressing, the country's largest record pressing plant.

Golden-eared audiophiles have long testified to vinyl's warmer, richer sound. And now demand for vinyl is on the rise. Pressing plants that were already at capacity are staying there, while others are cranking out more records than they did last year in order to keep pace with demand.

Don MacInnis, owner of Record Technology in Camarillo, California, predicts production will be up 25 percent over last year by the end of 2007. And he's not talking about small runs of dance music for DJs, but the whole gamut of music: "new albums, reissues, majors and indies ... jazz, blues, classical, pop and a lot of (classic) rock."

Turntables are hot again as well. Insound, an online music retailer that recently began selling USB turntables alongside vinyl, can't keep them in stock, according to the company's director, Patrick McNamara.

And on Oct. 17, Amazon.com launched a vinyl-only section stocked with a growing collection of titles and several models of record players.

Big labels still aren't buying the vinyl comeback, but it wouldn't be the first time the industry failed to identify a new trend in the music biz.

"Our numbers, at least, don't really point to a resurgence," said Jonathan Lamy, the Recording Industry Association of America's director of communications. Likewise, Nielsen SoundScan, which registered a slight increase in vinyl sales last year, nonetheless showed a 43 percent decrease between 2000 and 2006.

But when it comes to vinyl, these organizations don't really know what they're talking about. The RIAA's numbers are misleading because its member labels are only now beginning to react to the growing demand for vinyl. As for SoundScan, its numbers don't include many of the small indie and dance shops where records are sold. More importantly, neither organization tracks used records sold at stores or on eBay -- arguably the central clearinghouse for vinyl worldwide.

Vinyl's popularity has been underreported before.

"The Consumer Electronics Association said that only 100,000 turntables were sold in 2004. Numark alone sold more than that to pro DJs that year," said Chris Roman, product manager for Numark.

And the vinyl-MP3 tag team might just hasten the long-predicted death of the CD.

San Francisco indie band The Society of Rockets, for example, plans to release its next album strictly on vinyl and as MP3 files.

"Having just gone through the process of mastering our new album for digital and for vinyl, I can say it is completely amazing how different they really sound," said lead singer and guitarist Joshua Babcock in an e-mail interview. "The way the vinyl is so much better and warmer and more interesting to listen to is a wonder."

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Eliot Van Buskirk has covered digital music since 1998, after seeing the world's first MP3 player sitting on a colleague's desk. He plays bass and rides a bicycle.

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 Saturday, October 27, 2007

I have had only good experiences with Progressive. When I backed into a parked car last February (I had just gotten the cashier's check for the wedding site and I was a little distracted!), I had a check from them within days. Also, they've had a really well-designed website for longer than most companies I interact with, indicating that they are willing to make smart choices in terms of infrastructure. IMNSHO, that's almost unheard of in corp US, with all the idiotic MBAs out there who think they know how to design a website. I have not been to their site recently, so I hope it's still impressive! :-) Anyway, here's this morning's email thread:

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Dear Progressive,

This does not affect me directly, but it DOES remind me of why I will keep Progressive as my auto insurance provider. Originally, I chose Progressive because it is a "blue" company, but the experiences I have had with Progressive have shown that it's truly a good company with good people who are also, in this day, impressively competent and interested in doing their jobs well.

All admirable, and I wish more companies were like Progressive. The nation would be better off.

SA



--- Drive Insurance from Progressive wrote:
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> Regardless of where you live, if you have questions or concerns about your Drive policy or bill, please contact us 24/7 at 1-800-925-2886.
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 Thursday, October 11, 2007

I can't even believe this woman gets any legitimate airtime whatsoever. OMG.

On CNBC's The Big Idea, Coulter said that "we" Christians "just want Jews to be perfected"

She's really twisted.

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 Thursday, October 04, 2007

Yesterday there was what I found to be a very funny bit about AS on Kevin & Bean [KROQ, Los Angeles]. I have long considered Bean to be "one of us" [he broadcasts from an ISLAND off Seattle! He's got about 15 well-documented perseverations! The list goes on!] but Bean, when the topic is broached, usually demurs.

So yesterday they did an online AS self-test with him, and I found the whole bit to be very funny. Of course, people who find their (or their relatives') AS to be taboo or off-limits or shameful won't like this at all (and they should work on that attitude). Those of us who are AS-and-Proud, who find humour in our quirks and deficits and take life in stride (more or less, unless we're having to deal with say, a schedule change!) will probably have a good laugh.

Hear the show (Windows Media Player) here.

The test they gave Bean is here.

The 2-part EQ/AQ Simon Baron-Cohen test can be found here.

 

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 Thursday, June 07, 2007

Today's Joel on Software post really resonated with me. Not only is it clever and entertaining to read, it perfectly describes a mindset that I recognize. It describes, in a way, how I think about not only software (when I get to work on it), but also LIFE. Some people think I am "too critical", but I am really all about making things better. All about having a higher standard, and believing that, if people EXPECTED better, they'd get better, and they'd be smarter and happier. I really, really enjoyed this post, and I think understanding these concepts Joel makes note of might help others better understand me, too. Maybe. :-)

A Game of Inches

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 Wednesday, June 06, 2007

A very clever post, and as one commenter noted, just at the EDGE of plausibility.

Google Interiors - The Day My House Became Searchable

Enjoy!

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 Thursday, May 17, 2007

Good for them.

Here's a gif.

Here's the ad as it appeared.

This is the text:

Dear Attorney General Gonzales:

Twenty-five years ago we, like you, graduated from Harvard Law School. While we arrived via many different paths and held many different views, we were united in our deep respect for the Constitution and the rights it guaranteed. As members of the post-Watergate generation who chose careers in law, we understood the strong connection between our liberties as Americans and the adherence of public offi cials to the law of the land. We knew that the choice to abide by the law was even more critical when public officials were tempted to take legal shortcuts. Nowhere were we taught that the ends justified the means, or that freedoms for which Americans had fought and died should be set aside when inconvenient or challenging. To the contrary: our most precious freedoms, we learned, need defending most in times of crisis.

So it has been with dismay that we have watched your cavalier handling of our freedoms time and again. When it has been important that legal boundaries hold unbridled government power in check, you have instead used pretextual rationales and strained readings to justify an ever-expanding executive authority. Witness your White House memos sweeping aside the Geneva Conventions to justify torture, endangering our own servicemen and women; witness your advice to the President effectively reading Habeas Corpus out of our constitutional protections; witness your support of presidential statements claiming inherent power to wiretap American citizens without warrants (and the Administration’s stepped-up wiretapping campaign, taking advantage of those statements, which continues on your watch to this day); and witness your dismissive explanation of the troubling firings of numerous U.S. Attorneys, and their replacement with others more "loyal" to the President’s politics, as merely "an overblown personnel matter." In these and other actions, we see a pattern. As a recent editorial put it, your approach has come to symbolize "disdain for the separation of powers, civil liberties and the rule of law."

As lawyers, and as a matter of principle, we can no longer be silent about this Administration’s consistent disdain for the liberties we hold dear. Your failure to stand for the rule of law, particularly when faced with a President who makes the aggrandized claim of being a unitary executive, takes this country down a dangerous path.

Your country and your President are in dire need of an attorney who will do the tough job of providing independent counsel, especially when the advice runs counter to political expediency. Now more than ever, our country needs a President, and an Attorney General, who remember the apt observation attributed to Benjamin Franklin: "Those who would give up essential Liberty to purchase a little temporary Safety, deserve neither Liberty nor Safety." We call on you and the President to relent from this reckless path, and begin to restore respect for the rule of law we all learned to love many years ago.

THE SIGNATORIES ARE ALL MEMBERS OF THE HARVARD LAW SCHOOL CLASS OF 1982

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Nabbed from multiple sources, including CrooksAndLiars and DailyKos.

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This was such an amazing thing to see. Credit to Rosebud Cakes, in Beverly Hills. Very reasonably-priced, too, IMO.

 

 

 

 

 

 

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 Tuesday, May 08, 2007

And saw this! This is looking northeast from my house. I cannot believe it's still raging. And they've started evacuating the homes in Griffith Park. So sad. :-(

This may not seem like much to look at, but I do not live especially *close* to Griffith Park. That smoke is centered 14.2 miles away.

 

 

 

 

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I seem to have an uncanny knack for turning up in picture-taking range of these things lately. I took some of April's Barham fire (although I can't recall if I posted any here), and today, while having lunch with my sister at Victor's (Franklin & Bronson), my cousin Kelley called to let me know there was another Hollywood Hills fire. So I walked out of the restaurant and snapped the first photo below.

I had to go right PAST it, because I had to collect my son at school in Pasadena, and I know no other way to get from Hollywood to Pasadena save via Los Feliz to the 5N to the 134E to the 210E. So these pics follow that precise route. I got a helicopter in one of the pictures.

I have not checked on the status of the fire since I got home about 45 minutes ago. I guess I should look at the TV.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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 Monday, May 07, 2007

The wedding pictures had arrived by the time we got home from Dublin, but then I came down with a vicious cold, and I am just now really getting to go through them and resize them for web-friendly uses. I think I'll post a few now and again as I go through them all (there are over 1200!).

So here is the first batch...

 In the prep room...

 

 

 With my dad... "Here comes the bride..."

 

 

 Handing the bride over to the groom ;-)

 

 

  Whee! (I can't remember if this was before or after, maybe Jon knows)

 

 We did it!

 

 Cheers! First we drink...

 

 

  And then we dance!

 

Cake pictures and other stuff to come later. Like shots of people playing Ms. PacMan!!! And Donkey Kong!!!

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 Thursday, May 03, 2007

An immersion course in Kitty Pidgin. Very amusing.

lolcats has Star Trek

 

My geeky sister and her best friend talk like this a lot, and I just thought it was their own thing, like a twin language (they are very close!). But now I know better!

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 Monday, April 09, 2007

This is so incredibly cool. And I love the website. I just cried and cried, reading all the posts from all over the world. How can things be so screwed up when there are so many good people in the world? What is WRONG with us? Why do we let The Stupid perpetuate itself so.

As everyone who knows me in person knows, I've long been a rabid proponent of the Free Hug!! I just didn't know there was a formal movement! Hooray!!

 

"All the Same" by the Sick Puppies

http://www.freehugscampaign.org/

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 Wednesday, March 21, 2007

My personal digital cameras ended up with mostly pictures of the kids' noses and soda pops, and the photographer's pictures are expected in 3 weeks. However, today we discovered that our D.J. has a great picture of us!

 

The D.J. is the guy in black. ;-)

 

D.J. Dean, Shannon, Jon

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 Friday, February 23, 2007

THIS would be why email was always my preferred method of communication in the office. This, and of course, the unwillingness of management to either a) learn about, read about, or comprehend the actual issues (and the singularly involuntary NATURE of being autistic) and then b) integrate into the office the actual awareness training needed to stop staff from stubbornly misunderstanding everything. Of course, when "management" refuses to "get it", how can anyone expect other staff to make any effort? And for how long is the highly competent, very skilled, autistic employee reasonably expected to spend time self-advocating, instead of focusing on the tasks at hand? How is THAT smart management? [Panic attack, anyone?]

Saying to an employee (as was so often said to me) "Don't rely on email - people want to TALK to you" is plainly idiocy when the people "listening" are too self-involved to even hear factually what is being said. Email is far better for communication regarding methodology, structure, interface, workflow, planning, and UI parameters, just to name a FEW things it's better for. Having no affect doesn't HINDER this kind of work, it enhances it.

Interesting reading.

 

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Workplace wisdom: Autism research offers advice
Published February 2007 in issue 0607 of the HooK.

By PENELOPE TRUNK PENELOPE@PENELOPETRUNK.COM


Hannah Schufreider may seem an unlikely person to offer career advice. She's a 12-year-old autistic girl who spends her days being bored in school.

Hannah's successful strategies for dealing with her disability could be adapted by adults having trouble in their professional lives-- particularly those who can't connect with others at work.

 The link between the two is socials skills. Is there always one person at the office who's rude during meetings? Do you shy away from interacting with colleagues because you're not good at office politics?

Maybe that colleague, or you, have trouble reading social cues. People with autism usually have poor social skills.

Autistic people behave in ways that are out of sync with other people. "I make terrible jokes because I copy stuff I see on TV. I think it's funny, but my parents tell me it's not," says Hannah. Most people are born with the ability to read nonverbal cues, but Hannah cannot.

A workplace corollary is when a colleague who makes a coworker the butt of a joke is clueless that the coworker has a fragile personality. Another example: you've worked months on a big project, and after talking about it for an hour, a colleague says, "Forget it, that will never work."

In these situations, a manager should take that person aside and explain what was inappropriate.

People who miss social cues naturally have no idea they're missing them. "Often employees don't agree with the assessment. So the person speaking tries to give specific scenarios," says HR pro Beth Howell.

For example, instead of saying, "I feel you were too aggressive in that meeting," Howell would say, "In the meeting when you said 'X,' did you notice no one said anything? You might have been a little too strong."

Teaching people to read social cues is difficult. So instead of trying to understand how to say things differently, these people should avoid large meetings and concentrate on one-on-one conversations or e-mail.

People who are bad at reading nonverbal cues fare worse when there are more people around.

Back to Hannah. She's more successful in a smaller group than in her regular, larger classroom. It's easier for her to connect with one person and block out everyone else.

Writing is another good solution because the nonverbal affect isn't present. For most people, this makes communication more difficult, and we add emoticons to compensate for lost nuance. To someone without strong social skills, written communication has a flat, straightforward affect, making misunderstanding less likely.

Hannah's connection to the written word is almost life-saving. When she has trouble in a given situation, she reads. So here's a tip-- if you're on the receiving end of the "You're-offending-people" feedback, try communicating via e-mail.

A lot of people with poor social skills say things like, "I just want to be left alone." But it's very hard to maneuver through the workplace with this attitude.

People judge your work skills as incompetent if you're not likable-- no matter what your work skills are. It may not be fair, but people do it. So if you want to keep your job, you need to do enough politicking at work to make people like you. Instead of saying you don't like being around people, try creating scenarios where you find people more tolerable.

For those not succeeding with colleagues at work, the key is to figure out what environment would help them become successful. For someone with poor social skills, much of the ability to function is dependent on the environment.

But perhaps the most important thing we can learn from kids with autism is that they're most likely to succeed if we help them compensate for their weaknesses. We each have strengths, and we can each use this approach to make the difficult task of self-improvement more positive.

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 Saturday, January 13, 2007

2007 is definitely a good year so far. Not only are we getting married in March (and have solved the biggest problem - venue-related - that had faced us), but Friday morning we just took delivery of our wedding presents from my father: a new washer/dryer and a refrigerator! Also good this year: Raiden is flourishing in private school and just made it into the school band; Jon is having a great time doing some big, interesting projects; and all the MN kids are healthy and enjoying school. Well, except maybe for the one in middle school, but I've decided that public schools are never able to do middle school with any competence at all, and I'm not local enough to fix it or even fight about it, unfortunately!

So... back to the appliances! So far, I am incredibly happy with all three choices. I have yet to actually USE the washer and dryer myself, although I watched my dad, since he has the same ones at home in Nashville. I won't deploy until I have read the manual front to back. The fridge, however, had to be deployed before I could actually read the manual, but thus far exceeds all my expectations. Now, details:

Washer: LG TROMM SteamWasher™ WM2688H

Dryer: LG TROMM XL Capacity Gas Dryer DLG8388

Refrigerator: LG French Door LFX25960

And hey - that was some football today. I am exhausted just from WATCHING.

 

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 Tuesday, January 09, 2007

Has everyone seen this already?

 

The Coolest Clock. Ever.

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 Monday, December 25, 2006

Sigh. Am I only posting about death recently? Not good. But that's mostly because I am so busy, not because I am being morbid.

Legendary singer James Brown dies at 73
By GREG BLUESTEIN, 7 minutes ago

James Brown, the dynamic, pompadoured "Godfather of Soul," whose rasping vocals and revolutionary rhythms made him a founder of rap, funk and disco as well, died early Monday, his agent said. He was 73.

Brown was hospitalized with pneumonia at Emory Crawford Long Hospital on Sunday and died around 1:45 a.m. Monday, said his agent, Frank Copsidas of Intrigue Music. Longtime friend Charles Bobbit was by his side, he said.

Copsidas said the cause of death was uncertain. "We really don't know at this point what he died of," he said.

Pete Allman, a radio personality in Las Vegas who had been friends with Brown for 15 years, credited Brown with jump-starting his career and motivating him personally and professionally.

"He was a very positive person. There was no question he was the hardest working man in show business," Allman said. "I remember Mr. Brown as someone who always motivated me, got me reading the Bible."

Along with Elvis Presley, Bob Dylan and a handful of others, Brown was one of the major musical influences of the past 50 years. At least one generation idolized him, and sometimes openly copied him. His rapid-footed dancing inspired Mick Jagger and Michael Jackson among others. Songs such as David Bowie's "Fame," Prince's "Kiss," George Clinton's "Atomic Dog" and Sly and the Family Stone's "Sing a Simple Song" were clearly based on Brown's rhythms and vocal style.

If Brown's claim to the invention of soul can be challenged by fans of Ray Charles and Sam Cooke, then his rights to the genres of rap, disco and funk are beyond question. He was to rhythm and dance music what Dylan was to lyrics: the unchallenged popular innovator.

"James presented obviously the best grooves," rapper Chuck D of Public Enemy once told The Associated Press. "To this day, there has been no one near as funky. No one's coming even close."

His hit singles include such classics as "Out of Sight," "(Get Up I Feel Like Being a) Sex Machine," "I Got You (I Feel Good)" and "Say It Out Loud — I'm Black and I'm Proud," a landmark 1968 statement of racial pride.

"I clearly remember we were calling ourselves colored, and after the song, we were calling ourselves black," Brown said in a 2003 Associated Press interview. "The song showed even people to that day that lyrics and music and a song can change society."

He won a Grammy award for lifetime achievement in 1992, as well as Grammys in 1965 for "Papa's Got a Brand New Bag" (best R&B recording) and for "Living In America" in 1987 (best R&B vocal performance, male.) He was one of the initial artists inducted into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame in 1986, along with Presley, Chuck Berry and other founding fathers.

He triumphed despite an often unhappy personal life. Brown, who lived in Beech Island near the Georgia line, spent more than two years in a South Carolina prison for aggravated assault and failing to stop for a police officer. After his release on in 1991, Brown said he wanted to "try to straighten out" rock music.

From the 1950s, when Brown had his first R&B hit, "Please, Please, Please" in 1956, through the mid-1970s, Brown went on a frenzy of cross-country tours, concerts and new songs. He earned the nickname "The Hardest Working Man in Show Business."

With his tight pants, shimmering feet, eye makeup and outrageous hair, Brown set the stage for younger stars such as Michael Jackson and Prince.

In 1986, he was inducted in the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. And rap stars of recent years overwhelmingly have borrowed his lyrics with a digital technique called sampling.

Brown's work has been replayed by the Fat Boys, Ice-T, Public Enemy and a host of other rappers. "The music out there is only as good as my last record," Brown joked in a 1989 interview with Rolling Stone magazine.

"Disco is James Brown, hip-hop is James Brown, rap is James Brown; you know what I'm saying? You hear all the rappers, 90 percent of their music is me," he told the AP in 2003.

Born in poverty in Barnwell, S.C., in 1933, he was abandoned as a 4-year-old to the care of relatives and friends and grew up on the streets of Augusta, Ga., in an "ill-repute area," as he once called it. There he learned to wheel and deal.

"I wanted to be somebody," Brown said.

By the eighth grade in 1949, Brown had served 3 1/2 years in Alto Reform School near Toccoa, Ga., for breaking into cars.

While there, he met Bobby Byrd, whose family took Brown into their home. Byrd also took Brown into his group, the Gospel Starlighters. Soon they changed their name to the Famous Flames and their style to hard R&B.

In January 1956, King Records of Cincinnati signed the group, and four months later "Please, Please, Please" was in the R&B Top Ten.

While most of Brown's life was glitz and glitter, he was plagued with charges of abusing drugs and alcohol and of hitting his third wife, Adrienne.

In September 1988, Brown, high on PCP and carrying a shotgun, entered an insurance seminar next to his Augusta office. Police said he asked seminar participants if they were using his private restroom.

Police chased Brown for a half-hour from Augusta into South Carolina and back to Georgia. The chase ended when police shot out the tires of his truck.

Brown received a six-year prison sentence. He spent 15 months in a South Carolina prison and 10 months in a work release program before being paroled in February 1991. In 2003, the South Carolina parole board granted him a pardon for his crimes in that state.

Soon after his release, Brown was on stage again with an audience that included millions of cable television viewers nationwide who watched the three-hour, pay-per-view concert at Wiltern Theatre in Los Angeles.

Adrienne Brown died in 1996 in Los Angeles at age 47. She took PCP and several prescription drugs while she had a bad heart and was weak from cosmetic surgery two days earlier, the coroner said.

More recently, he married his fourth wife, Tomi Raye Hynie, one of his backup singers. The couple had a son, James Jr.

Two years later, Brown spent a week in a private Columbia hospital, recovering from what his agent said was dependency on painkillers. Brown's attorney, Albert "Buddy" Dallas, said singer was exhausted from six years of road shows.

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 Wednesday, November 22, 2006

I have not seen John Allen in years and years, but when I was a "wee girl", I spent a lot of time with him, and his music means a lot to me. He was very close with our family for a time, there, when I was young.

When Jon and I were in Toronto in August, we were *in* freaking Pickering, where apparently John Allen lived, but I didn't know he was there, so we didn't visit him. Damn, damn, damn. I thought he was in Cape Breton.

Interestingly enough, the song that was *supposed* to be played at my mother's funeral, "Mist-covered Mountains", but that her husband nixed because my father produced it, WILL be played at our wedding. And John Allan is the man who taught her how to sing it in Gaelic! I guess we'll have to add some of his music to the wedding, too!

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Mist-covered Mountains

Chorus
O chi, chi mi na morbheanna
O chi, chi mi na corrbheanna
O chi, chi mi na coireachan
Chi mi na sgoran fo cheo.

Chi mi gun dail an t-aite 's an d'rugadh mi
Cuirear orm failt' 's a' chanain a thuigeas mi
Gheibh mi ann aoidh abus gradh 'n uair ruigeam
Nach reicinn air thunnaichean oir.

Chi mi ann coilltean, chi mi ann doireachan
Chi mi ann maghan bana is toraiche
Chi mi na feidh air lar nan coireachan
Falaicht' an trusgan de cheo.

Beanntaichean arda is aillidh leacainnean
Sluagh ann an comhnuidh is coire cleachdainnean
'S aotrom mo cheum a' leum g'am faicinn
Is fanaidh mi tacan le deoin.

[In english]

Chorus
Oh ro, soon shall I see them;
Oh he ro see them oh see them.
Oh ro soon shall I see them the
mist covered mountains of home.


There shall I visit the place of my birth
And they'll give me a welcome, the warmest on earth
All so loving and kind full of music and mirth,
In the sweet-sounding language of home.

There shall I gaze on the mountains again,
On the fields and the woods and the burns and the glens,
Away 'mong the corries beyond human ken
In the haunts of the deer I will roam

Hail to the mountains with summits of blue,
To the glens with their meadows of sunshine and dew.
To the women and men ever constant and true,
Ever ready to welcome one home.

MIDI file

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 Saturday, November 11, 2006

The weird thing about THIS year is that my son won't be calling my stepfather to thank him for his service. The first time Raiden did that was a few years ago, and he did it on his own. I was so proud. I was neither close to nor fond of my stepfather, but I supported any social effort my son ever made, and I thought the Veteran's Day recognition was a biggie.

My stepfather died in early October, and his funeral was Oct 10, which ironically was the 5-year anniversary of my mother's death. He flew Spitfires for the RAF in WWII. He won the Distinguished Flying Cross. When he wasn't being totally self-absorbed, he had moments of being interesting. [Some day I should post about his hijacking of my mother's funeral.] He was very anti-war, no doubt informed by the horrors he witnessed in WWII.

I was hoping for the ubiquitous pic of Jack in his Spitfire in the obit, but they used a pic from the set of his TV show instead. This is the obit from the CBC. Here's his Wiki entry.

Anyway, it's weird to be having Veteran's Day/Remembrance Day, and have *remembering him* be something of the past. Today we watched the movie Shallow Grave, which ends on Jack's co-written song, "Happy Heart". It was somehow fitting, as he was terrifically proud of the song, and that they used it in this film.

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 Thursday, September 21, 2006

Any of you dealing with problems of ridiculous amounts of homework that stress your kid out pointlessly and create rifts in the home should read this article, and then click on the handy-dandy amazon.com links I have included so you can do your OWN homework on the issue, and *then* talk to the school about what you have learned. I have been following this kind of research for years, knowing intuitively and full well that the stupendous, overwhelming busywork being sent home with my child (things he has frequently not been adequately taught - because they expect *me* to teach it!) was sheer nonsense. Now, more and more books are being published that explain why. The typical parental gut-reaction that homework is at all meaningful is pretty much an urban myth. Be sure to get all the way to the principal's analysis in the final paragraph. It's illuminating.

Enjoy!!

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Forget Homework
It's a waste of time for elementary-school students.
by Emily Bazelon

Posted Thursday, Sept. 14, 2006, at 7:47 AM ET

Over the last decade, Japanese schools have been scrapping homework while American elementary schools have been assigning more of it. What gives—aren't they supposed to be the model achievers while we're the slackers? No doubt our eagerness to shed the slacker mantle has helped feed the American homework maw. But it may be the Japanese, once again, who know what they're doing.

Such is my conclusion after reading three new books on the subject: The Case Against Homework by Sara Bennett and Nancy Kalish; The Homework Myth by Alfie Kohn; and the third edition of The Battle Over Homework by Duke psychology professor Harris Cooper. If you already despise homework, Bennett and Kalish provide advice on how to plead with teachers and schools for mercy. If you're agnostic, as I was, Kohn is the meatier read. Kohn is the author of several rebellious books about education, and he exposes the lack of evidence for many of the standard arguments in favor of homework: that it boosts achievement, that it inculcates good study habits, that it teaches kids to take the initiative, that it's better than video games or whatever else kids do in their free time.

Cooper is one of Kohn's main foils and a leading scholar on the subject, so I picked up his book expecting to find a convincing counterargument defending homework. I didn't. Cooper's research shows that, much of the time, take-home assignments in elementary school are an act of faith. No one really knows whether all those math sheets and spelling drills add up to anything. If there's little or no evidence that younger students benefit from homework, why assign it at all? Or, to adopt Kohn's less extreme position in The Homework Myth, why make homework the rule rather than the rare and thought-through exception?

In The Battle Over Homework, Cooper has crunched the numbers on dozens of studies of homework for students of all ages. Looking across all the studies is supposed to offer a fairly accurate picture even though the science behind some of them is sketchy. For elementary-school students, Cooper found that "the average correlation between time spent on homework and achievement … hovered around zero." In Kohn's book, he highlights a 1998 study that Cooper and his colleagues did with second- through 12th-graders. For younger students, the amount of homework completed had no effect on test scores and bore a negative relationship to grades. (The results weren't quite so grim for older students. Their grades rose in relation to the amount of homework they completed, though their test scores did not.) Kohn looks at these findings and concludes that most homework is at best a waste of time and at worst a source of tedious vexation.

Cooper, despite his findings, continues to back the "10-minute rule"—10 minutes of homework in kindergarten and first grade, with 10 more minutes for each additional grade level. For support, he zeroes in on six studies conducted between 1987 and 2003. These included third- through fifth-graders, and they compared kids who did homework with kids who didn't. (In a rare moment of good science in this field, the kids were assigned randomly to one group or the other in four of the studies.) The homework kids performed better, but only on a "unit test"—a test of the material they'd been sent home to study. Which means that Cooper's best evidence doesn't refute one of Kohn's central claims—that the measurable benefits of homework diminish the longer students are tracked for. Take a snapshot of a math quiz on fractions after kids drill fractions at night and homework looks good. Take a longer view and the shine comes off.

Cooper's support for the 10-minute rule actually makes him a voice of homework moderation in light of evil-homework tales of kindergartners slogging through 130-word lists. But as Kohn writes, "We sometimes forget that not everything that's destructive when done to excess is innocuous when done in moderation." In response, homework advocates emphasize the inviting notion that homework in elementary school fosters good study habits. "Before you can build a house, you need to build the scaffolding," Cooper says. Giving young kids briefer take-home assignments "is like learning to add single-digit numbers before you can add double digits."

This claim seems to make intuitive sense to a lot of people, but there is no research to either support or debunk it—the association between early homework and study habits simply hasn't been studied. And to me, it makes no sense at all. Time management and a general notion of discipline are not refined and specific and cumulative skills like playing tennis or baseball. So, why should we think that practicing homework in first grade will make you better at doing it in middle school? Doesn't the opposite seem equally plausible: that it's counterproductive to ask children to sit down and work at night before they're developmentally ready because you'll just make them tired and cross? "Most twelve-year-olds are better [at time management] than most seven-year-olds regardless of how much homework they've been assigned," Kohn writes. "It's both naive and unhelpful to expect younger children to defer gratification or know how to engage in long-term planning."

Nor does most homework teach kids to take the initiative and make learning their own. Instead, it's about following directions. In The Homework Myth, Kohn muses that the real purpose may be to foster uncritical obedience so that when kids grow up they'll accept the long hours Americans are expected to work. I'm not sure I'm ready to join that conspiracy theory, but I do resent the lemminglike nature of homework and its incursion on my kid's time. Eli is at school for 6.5 hours a day already—that seems like plenty of opportunity to get across what they want to teach him.

Kohn makes one major exception to his skepticism about homework—the encouragement of reading for pleasure. But he counsels that schools should take care lest their prodding turn books from a joy into a chore. Eli and his classmates are supposed to write down the books that they've read or had read to them. I'm willing to try this, but wary. It's only the first month of school, and a friend's daughter has already pretended to have read books that clearly haven't left her shelf. Homework as temptation to fib: not the lesson that schools intend to teach, but probably one that a lot of students learn.

When I shopped around the arguments against homework, I discovered that how you feel about it depends a lot on what you think kids will do if they don't have any. Eli's homework seems like an imposition when I measure it against running around the playground or playing card games or building with blocks or talking to his little brother.

In response to this, Cooper delicately suggested that my idea of a childhood afternoon well-spent is idealized and elitist. Maybe so. But the argument that homework is a net benefit for most kids has a big weakness. When homework boosts achievement, it mostly boosts the achievement of affluent students. They're the ones whose parents are most likely to make them do the assignments, and who have the education to explain and help. "If we sat around and deliberately tried to come up with a way to further enlarge the achievement gap, we might just invent homework," New York educator Deborah Meier told Kohn.

I e-mailed the principal of Eli's public elementary school, Scott Cartland, to ask about homework, and he emphasized the value of encouraging reading and making room for long-term projects. But he also fell back on logic that he admits is not, well, logical. "It has been drilled into our collective psyche that rigorous schools assign rigorous homework," Cartland wrote. "I recognize that this is a ridiculous thought process, particularly since your research suggests otherwise, but it's hard to break the thinking on this one. How could we be a high-achieving school and not assign homework?" How indeed. I hope the education establishment begins to wrestle with this question. If not, maybe it's time to move to Japan.

Emily Bazelon is a Slate senior editor.

Article URL: http://www.slate.com/id/2149593/

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 Wednesday, September 20, 2006

My dear friend, Hayley, is a "Case Girl" on Deal or No Deal, and she told me that they are now selling ringtones of her voice!! She gets some kind of recognition for being the most popular girl, and since she is my friend, I want to help out. SO, any of you who want a hot girl telling you to "Answer the phone; you might get lucky" should go grab her ringtone!

Let me point out that they misspelled her name, but that doesn't make her less hot. Hee!

Hayley on the DOND site.
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 Sunday, July 09, 2006
Mostly only because of the idiotic things he says to people on Loveline on KROQ, because I quite enjoyed the Man Show. But I have to really give him credit for this one! He did something genuinely funny and cool for a change!

The Great Society provides a rough transcript:

ADAM CAROLLA: Ann Coulter, who was suppose to be on the show about an hour and a half ago, is now on the phone, as well. Ann?

ANN COULTER: Hello.

CAROLLA: Hi Ann. You’re late, babydoll.

COULTER: Uh, somebody gave me the wrong number.

CAROLLA: Mmm… how did you get the right number? Just dialed randomly — eventually got to our show? (Laughter in background)

COULTER: Um, no. My publicist e-mailed it to me, I guess, after checking with you.

CAROLLA: Ahh, I see.

COULTER: But I am really tight on time right now because I already had a —

CAROLLA: Alright, well, get lost.

 

 

*wild applause from Shannon*

:-)

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 Saturday, July 08, 2006

I just read in my Entertainment Weekly that arrived yesterday that Arif Mardin passed away on June 25. This makes me sad. He was one of the nicest, most down-to-earth guys I ever worked with. He was a huge, important man, in the music business, but he was terrifically kind and genuine and never had airs or talked down to the staff at studios where he did his work.

I am sad to hear he's gone, because not only was he gifted, he was a good human being.

Obit from Rolling Stone Magazine. Includes a link to hit songs.

NPR Interview from December 2005!

Wikipedia entry.

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 Monday, July 03, 2006

Stepson Christian is here from MN, and we are having a lovely time!

We happened to go to Disneyland on opening day of the new, improved Pirates of the Caribbean ride. OMG. The lines were huge, but the Jack Sparrow additions were quite groovy. Kudos to the animatronics programmers who did the first appearance - it really moves like Sparrow!!

Superman was very enjoyable.

Very important: GO SEE An Inconvenient Truth. Seriously. Don't screw around or do whiny politically-biased arguing. Go see it, then do the research yourself. But don't let anyone else's crap dissuade you from at least SEEING it.

Last Wednesday we went to see Emmylou Harris & Mark Knopfler (he of Dire Straits fame, for those of you not guitar afficionados), and the show was awesome. There is also an album, All the Roadrunning, so you all can share the joy. :-) Also available on iTunes, of course.

And I STILL need this shirt!!! I know my birthday isn't until September, but the midterm election is in NOVEMBER, and the more promotion of TDS and Colbert, the better!!!

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 Thursday, June 22, 2006

So, the fear-mongering of the American insurance lobby aside, I have always known that universal health care is a Good Thing, because I am from Toronto, and I witnessed its great successes with my mother's cancer throughout her lifetime, and my stepfather's heart problems and eventual quad bypass. I worked hard on the campaign to bring universal care to California when there was a bill pending here, and even went to colleges around my city helping to explain the very simple economics of it to the brainwashed college youth. It's a shame the soul-less insurance company advertising mangaged to terrify the voting public with their lies.

 

So, I first read about this back in May, in a groovy blog which I have on my BlogRoll, the one called "Northern Fence". But I decided to wait to post about it until the full article was released, which happened yesterday. It's a study published in the American Journal of Public Health.

 

Summary:
Objectives. We compared health status, access to care, and utilization of medical services in the United States and Canada, and compared disparities according to race, income, and immigrant status.
 
Methods. We analyzed population-based data on 3505 Canadian and 5183 US adults from the Joint Canada/US Survey of Health. Controlling for gender, age, income, race, and immigrant status, we used logistic regression to analyze country as a predictor of access to care, quality of care, and satisfaction with care, and as a predictor of disparities in these measures.
 
Results. In multivariate analyses, US respondents (compared with Canadians) were less likely to have a regular doctor, more likely to have unmet health needs, and more likely to forgo needed medicines. Disparities on the basis of race, income, and immigrant status were present in both countries, but were more extreme in the United States.
 
Conclusions. United States residents are less able to access care than are Canadians. Universal coverage appears to reduce most disparities in access to care. (Am J Public Health. 2006;96:XXX–XXX. doi:10.2105/AJPH.2004.059402)

Read the .pdf here, or read the abstract only here.

 

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